Welcome to our little corner of the world! I am going to share with you the story of my little boy Blaze.
You may wonder why I am willing to share so many details about my little boy. I share his story to help others better understand him. Until you know how far he has come, you can't fully appreciate where he is today. Blaze has been through a lot and it hasn't been easy. He has been through more in seven years than many adults go through in a lifetime.
When I signed up as a foster parent I had no intentions of fostering special needs kids. I thought that needed to be for more equipped and better qualified families and we were far from that. I've always had a soft spot for people with special needs, but no desire to try to raise one (just being honest). When I accepted Blaze's placement I had no idea that anything was wrong with him. Little did I know that when I said "Yes" my world was about to change forever.
Within a few days in my home, I knew something was not right with Blaze. When the doctors started throwing out words like cytomegalovirus, nystagmus, and thrombocytopenia my head started spinning. I couldn't say those words much less spell them. What was I going to do? What was I thinking? How could I possibly meet this child's needs? As his foster parent, I had options. I could call DFCS and have him moved to another home or I could do everything in my power to help him. After much thoughts and many prayers, I chose the harder path.
I started researching. I wanted to learn everything possible so that I could help him to be the best that he could be. With every new diagnosis, I would do the same. Sometimes what I read left me feeling helpless and scared. Other times, I would find a spark of hope. I started looking for other families, other kids, anybody who knew anything about these conditions. When they say a special needs parent becomes an expert at their own child, that is the truth. They have to.
Blaze's unique needs opened up a new world that I never really knew existed. A special world full of people, and stories, and triumphs, and losses, and everything in between. I started making connections. I started finding other families and realized that I wasn't so alone. I found many others on this same path and they understood what most of our family and friends couldn't. They shared their stories and opened their hearts to us. Now, I share his story because I want the whole world to know about this awful thing called CMV. I share his story in hopes that one mom will educate herself so that her child will not have to go through what my little boy has.
Blaze has been one of my greatest blessings! I can't even imagine my life without him. God sent Blaze to us because he knew that he needed us and we needed him, Blaze has made me a better and stronger person. As long as I live I will do everything that I can do to make his life better. Blaze is precious to me and I am BLESSED to be his mom! His story is the story of a miracle child. His story is a story of hope and it's a story worth sharing!
When I signed up as a foster parent I had no intentions of fostering special needs kids. I thought that needed to be for more equipped and better qualified families and we were far from that. I've always had a soft spot for people with special needs, but no desire to try to raise one (just being honest). When I accepted Blaze's placement I had no idea that anything was wrong with him. Little did I know that when I said "Yes" my world was about to change forever.
Within a few days in my home, I knew something was not right with Blaze. When the doctors started throwing out words like cytomegalovirus, nystagmus, and thrombocytopenia my head started spinning. I couldn't say those words much less spell them. What was I going to do? What was I thinking? How could I possibly meet this child's needs? As his foster parent, I had options. I could call DFCS and have him moved to another home or I could do everything in my power to help him. After much thoughts and many prayers, I chose the harder path.
I started researching. I wanted to learn everything possible so that I could help him to be the best that he could be. With every new diagnosis, I would do the same. Sometimes what I read left me feeling helpless and scared. Other times, I would find a spark of hope. I started looking for other families, other kids, anybody who knew anything about these conditions. When they say a special needs parent becomes an expert at their own child, that is the truth. They have to.
Blaze's unique needs opened up a new world that I never really knew existed. A special world full of people, and stories, and triumphs, and losses, and everything in between. I started making connections. I started finding other families and realized that I wasn't so alone. I found many others on this same path and they understood what most of our family and friends couldn't. They shared their stories and opened their hearts to us. Now, I share his story because I want the whole world to know about this awful thing called CMV. I share his story in hopes that one mom will educate herself so that her child will not have to go through what my little boy has.
Blaze has been one of my greatest blessings! I can't even imagine my life without him. God sent Blaze to us because he knew that he needed us and we needed him, Blaze has made me a better and stronger person. As long as I live I will do everything that I can do to make his life better. Blaze is precious to me and I am BLESSED to be his mom! His story is the story of a miracle child. His story is a story of hope and it's a story worth sharing!